My buddy Dan’s site and home is very different from mine. He
shares a compound with a family, lives in a simpler home than I and his
immediate surrounds feel much more rural and spread out than where I live. He
also has an abundance of huge spiders all over the walls. They weren’t there
the first time I visited, but the second time I visited, they were scurrying
all over the walls. I kind of panicked and seriously considered staying up all
night, sitting in the middle of the floor with a flashlight, shining it on the
walls to keep an eye on the whereabouts of my worst enemies.
On my first visit, his site mate came over and we made Tom
Kha (southeast Asian coconut soup) for dinner. We had a couple beers, and
pretty late in the night it came up that there’s a river and a waterfall nearby
his house. I was up for an impromptu adventure, so we decided to make the
supposed thirty-minute walk through the forest. Dan had never been there in the
dark, so unsurprisingly we were moderately lost after twenty minutes. Somehow
we ended up incredibly high up on the steep hillside above the river. Trying to
descend to the river was, at times, moderately harrowing. A bad step could have
led to a seriously long tumble that would have at the least led to some broken
bones. We made it, though, after a while of scrambling around the sparse
forest.
And what can I say about it? The waterfall was
modestly-sized, but beautiful, and most importantly, had a good pool below for
swimming. We swam around for a while and sipped the beers we had brought along.
Somehow the outside temperature and temperature of the river were perfectly
comfortable. Most importantly, though, was the amount of solitude we had. It
was a rare thing to be outdoors, and be completely free from the eyes of
anyone. Rwanda is extremely densely populated, but we were about twenty minutes
from the nearest house. That in itself is rare. Some of my most memorable
moments in Rwanda are those in which I feel a strong sense of freedom. This was
definitely one of those moments.
I returned to Dan’s months later for another little
adventure. This time it was a little more intense. The plan was to walk and
swim from the upper end of the river, down to the waterfall we had been to
before. The river descended through a series of rapids and waterfalls before
reaching the final pool. To get to the river, we went off a trail and
bushwhacked briefly to stony area just above the river. When we got to a big
flat boulder, Dan told me that this had been the spot where a European, who had
lived in this village a few decades ago, would meet with the community. It was
a seven-foot drop down to the riverbank, and we had to jump. Seven feet looks a
lot higher from above and it was embarrassing how long it took us to jump down.
We laughed at ourselves when we looked back up at the modest height we had been
so nervous about.
The river was more of a shallow creek at this point. We took
off our sandals and shirts and started wading downstream. There were a few
rapids and slippery rocks, but for a while, everything was pretty calm. The
first danger, to me, was the spiders. I noticed a few long web strands
traversing the river, and delicately crept under them. A couple of the strands
had huge, long spiders clinging to them. My skin crawled. Then I saw a tree
that was hanging over the river that was crawling with these big spiders.
Several strands crossed the river, with the spiders just chilling about three
feet above the water, leaving me unable to cross. At this point I really
thought I was going to have to give up. Spiders are my biggest weakness and I
felt incredibly vulnerable. Dan fears bugs and insects, but claims spiders
don’t bother him because they are restricted to their webs. He also said this
would not be nearly the scariest part of the journey. He broke through the
webs, which made me panic, since I couldn’t see where the spiders went when
they fell. Surely they were in the river. I was in the river too. So,
naturally, I was about to be crawling with homeless spiders. I waited a few
moments, hoping the spiders would get a head start down the river in front of
me and proceeded, keeping as far away from the tree as possible, ducking low,
in case there were any more webs that Dan had missed. Dan was getting annoyed with
my sudden shrieks. He wanted me to use my words. At one moment he was
clambering over a rock, and shrieked again, as I saw he was about to put his
head right into a floating spider. He glared at me and said, “Would you stop
screaming?! What is wrong?” “Don’t move, there is a spider right next to your
head,” I responded. He slowly turned and came face to face with the devil and
shuddered in shock. He swatted it out of the air and continued on his way.
Luckily that was our last spider incident of the day.
The river started to get bigger and at parts it became hard
to proceed over slick rocks, rapids and little drop-offs. The most unique part
came when the river basically fell into a hole in the rocks, making a little
waterfall in a small cave. We had to get out of the river, and scramble down
some rocks to get to the other side of the little cave. On the other side, the
river was forced through a tiny channel between two rocks. We climbed into the
incredibly strong current and clung to rocks as we inched up into the little
cave. The whole river was falling about four feet through a hole in the roof of
the cave. There were a couple of smooth rocks to sit on next to the falling
water (waterfall). The force of the water coming down was tremendous and the
sound was thunderous.
The current continued to get faster, the rapids rockier and
the drops deeper, until we arrived at a full on waterfall. The drop was about
thirty for forty eet. We obviously couldn’t just slide down, but Dan had been
here once before and knew a way down. The way was not obvious by any means. We
climbed out of the river, and had to scramble diagonally down a stone crevasse
until we reached earth again. A short descent through steep greenery led us to
the most intense part of the hike (except for the spiders, of course). We had
descended almost halfway down the falls and were standing on an earthen ledge
next to the rushing water. A six-foot drop below us was a stone ledge. Reaching
it would be difficult. I suggested that just jumping to the ledge was feasible,
but he insisted that it was too risky. The ledge was barely big enough for two
people to stand on, and the chance of a bad landing, which would ensure a
15-foot rocky fall, was too great. He said the only solution was to slip down
the near-vertical earth between us and the waterfall, then flip your body over
and climb onto the ledge. I don’t know if my description is making any sense or
if it sounds terrifying, but it was very terrifying. Dan had to psych himself
up for a few minutes before even clambering down a body length. There was a
vine coming out of the ground that I tested for strength. It seemed strong
enough to rely on for support, so I handed it to him. He took another few
minutes to psych himself for the couple of steps over to the ledge. Mind you,
the physical act itself wasn’t incredibly challenging. The point is that the
stakes were incredibly high. For a moment he would only be touching earth with
one arm and one leg, as he swung his body over to the ledge, all while hovering
about twenty-feet above jutting rocks and churning water. He had done it once
before, but he was still incredibly on edge (get it?). With the help of the
vine as an emergency support, he swung his body over and inched onto the stone
ledge. He exhaled deeply and let out a big whoop. I don’t know if I was as
scared as he appeared, but I thought I was holding it together better. I acted
like it was no big deal as I slid my body down to where the first foothold was.
It was at that moment that I realized how scary it really was. I still tried to
not let on that I was nervous, probably because of my embarrassing behavior
with all the spiders. I reached for the vine, and with just a tiny tug, it came
free and fell into the chaos below. Dan realized the serious danger he had been
in, putting most of his weight into the vine, which was apparently not as
strong as well anchored as I had thought. When I finally made the steps over to
the ledge, I had the added benefit of Dan being there, so he was able to grab
me when I was halfway, and pull me over.
The hardest part was over, but we were still only halfway
down the waterfall, and there was definitely no terrestrial route to the river
below. We had to, nay, we got to jump. It was a big drop, but nothing that I
haven’t done dozens of times in Idaho. I was only worried about the depth. The
river above had never been more than four or five feet deep. I let Dan go
first. When I entered the water, I was surprised to find that, although I
descended incredibly deep, I never touched the bottom. I still remember that
moment of my body hitting the deepest point, the murky water bubbly around me,
coming to a slow halt, and rebounding towards the greenish surface where I
could see the rippling light of the sun. When I reached the surface, I found
myself in a pool that seemed calmly enveloped in green foliage. Before leaping
from the ledge, I was still too jumpy (get it, again?) to appreciate the
atmosphere. A sheer rock wall draped in vines rose thirty feet above us on one
side, while the bushy vegetation was thick on the other. I felt very tucked
away and secluded in this little pool, which is a good thing.
We continued. The natural part of this adventure was almost
over. The human part of this adventure (which I should actually refer to as
awkwardness, rather than adventure) was imminent. We arrived at the top of the
last waterfall, the one that I mentioned on a previous visit, and bushwhacked
around it.
I forgot to mention that this area is full of sacred prayer
sites that people from all over Rwanda make pilgrimages to. There are a few
big, flat stone surfaces and some caves where people come to pray. Dan knows
most of the people in his village, but out here, most of the people he might
run into are strangers.
As we tried to make our way around the waterfall, he noticed
two old woman traversing a steep trail on a distant hillside. As we were very
indecently dressed and behaving abnormally, splashing around in rivers and all,
he didn’t want them to notice us. We stopped and hoped they wouldn’t see us. It
might sound weird, but when you live in a small village like this, your
reputation is important, and strange behavior and shirtlesness like ours will
be looked on with suspicion or even disdain. Rwandans tend to be very observant,
and within a couple of moments, they noticed us. They waved and we shouted a
couple of greetings. I didn’t feel to awkward, since I was very far from my
community, but I could tell it bothered Dan.
He told me that these women were probably visiting a nearby
cave to pray in. He said he walked into one of these caves once and regretted
it. A group of Rwandans were huddled together in the darkness, speaking in
tongues. He said it was like the scene in “I Am Legend” where Will Smith
stumbles into a dark building to find a group of vampires all crowded together
in a corner.
The hike was done and as we crossed the river to head back,
we found ourselves on one of the stone platforms. This was another popular
prayer spot. We heard voices of people approaching. We tried to sneak around
them, but inevitably ran into the group of pilgrims. They were clean and well
dressed. We were half-naked, barefoot and dripping wet. We exchanged awkward
greetings--theirs in halting English, ours in well-rehearsed Kinyarwanda--and
passed each other without incident.
When we got back to the place where we had embarked on our
journey, we realized we had to make the little jump off the rock to retrieve
our effects. Then, after Dan made the anticlimactic leap, I realized that I didn’t
have to go down, since he could throw me my things. Getting back up, for him,
turned out to be stupidly complicated. He spent several minutes gracelessly
clambering up through bushes and rocks, trying to find a route for the
seven-foot ascent.
When we got back to his house, he realized he was out of
water and we would have to take a walk to the spring to fetch more. Most Peace
Corps volunteers, and many Rwandans, that don’t have running water pay someone
to fetch it for them. I don’t have any criticism for this, but I do have mad
respect for Dan for insisting on fetching his own water. It is clearly one of
the many things he has done in his community to help him integrate and
ingratiate himself with his community. I enjoyed the physical task of fetching
water when I was in Mali, but am also glad that I didn’t have to face the
decision of whether to do it for two years in Rwanda. I am one of the few
volunteers that has running water in the home. I was originally disappointed by
this because I wanted that experience of going to the water spout every day and
mingling with all the women and children in line. I got used to it very quickly
now, and have to admit that I am thankful constantly that I don’t have to run
out and carry a 50 pound jug of water any time I run out of water. Dan’s
fetching trip takes about 45 minutes, more when there is a line. Luckily, when
we went, it was after dark, so there was nobody in line. On the way there, Dan
had to pick up a new cork for his jerry can. And when I say cork, I mean one of
those purple banana blossoms that hangs off the banana trees. This is a common
cap replacement (NOBODY in Rwanda has the caps for their jerry cans). We had to
go stumbling around a bunch of banana groves to find a blossom that was at the
right size and stage of growth. It was a fun little excursion for me, since I
had no idea how to find the right blossom or even that it was appropriate to
nab one out of somebody else’s banana grove.
I live in a Rwandan village, but it is incredibly different
from Dan’s. My house and immediate surroundings do not feel “village” on the
level that Dan’s site is. I am usually grateful for my community’s relative
modernity, with a basketball court and well-stocked boutiques, but there is
something truly special about the simplicity of Dan’s village.